Right now not rocking the boat seems the best approach to me. I am still going to consult with a L to see if there are any legal implications to me basically moving back in and saying to my W "if you don't like it, go to the apt". That does not appear a wise move, though I know some would differ, and I value and respect their advice. If my principle was making sure the kids got to see me often enough during the summer I think my calculation puts my heart at ease a bit.
By not rocking the boat, what I mean is that they will take a snapshot look at what has been in place to date, and they will assume that this is the best plan for the kids.
Aggressively pursuing time with your kids has nothing to do with the marriage right now.
There is a middle ground...
Originally Posted By: UKVA
Some of these situations seem unclear, on the one hand I want to make her feel the consequences of her decision, but on the other I don't want to do anything to turn her away. Right now I am going to sit on the decision until I have legal advice. Probably continue on with things as they are.
How about if you were to just do what is right, and not worry about the rest ???
You are correct, it is not your place to enforce the ramifications of her decisions....
Nor are you doing yourself any justice, by sitting around and waiting for the other shoe to drop....
