Right now not rocking the boat seems the best approach to me. I am still going to consult with a L to see if there are any legal implications to me basically moving back in and saying to my W "if you don't like it, go to the apt". That does not appear a wise move, though I know some would differ, and I value and respect their advice. If my principle was making sure the kids got to see me often enough during the summer I think my calculation puts my heart at ease a bit.
Some of these situations seem unclear, on the one hand I want to make her feel the consequences of her decision, but on the other I don't want to do anything to turn her away. Right now I am going to sit on the decision until I have legal advice. Probably continue on with things as they are.
M 53, W 48 T 25, M 18 S 15, D 11 "I'me done!" 6/13/2010 Exit started 8/21/2011 ILYBNILWY W consults with L 9/2011, no papers filed Separated 1/16/2012
