H was here today without me knowing. I thought it was weird that our mailbox was open. Then I could tell the grass had been cut. I think he was in the house but cannot prove it, but I am pretty sure a book I left out on financial things and divorce was moved. I am not okay with this.

I am waiting to send him an email with boundaries until I cool down. Sunday is his birthday, and he is participating in his first triathalon (we have nothing in common, HA!) and I was going to text him good luck and happy birthday but now I am def not.


Me-32
H-31
M-1yr, 9mos/T-6.5yrs
No kids, 3 pets
H estranged father passes away- 8/11
Bomb- 1/15/12
Began LRT- 4/1/12