Try learning this. It's a great skill to have. Read books or talk to a C about it. The more you understand this, the easier things will go between your W and you.
"I was determined to get back in the family home full time, but do not want this thing going to family court. She just might do that."
She has no grounds to keep you away from your home. You don't have anything written that says that you must stay out of the house. It is your home, you don't pose a danger or threat to anyone. It just goes against what she wants. Be sure you consult with your L about this to be sure that legally you can go back home and then do it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
