She agreed to meet for Lunch -- NOW WHAT?

[DBinSF]

Thanks. Great advice. It's SO hard to resist clinging, needing, wanting, asking. I love her so much, and I know inside she still loves me. She is using someone else as a barrier between us to keep herself from being hurt again. She was SO LOOPY in love with me for so long, and I treated her like [censored]...

I know I need to keep it light. I will do my best. Perhaps this is a total mistake to meet at all. The good news is I'm stronger, happier, and more attractive than I've ever been. Perhaps all I can hope for is that she will notice that on her own.

So, let her lead, eh? Good idea. Ask questions? Be interested? Show support and love without showing need or desire?