Last Resort Technique - Can I correct problems?

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First, why would you NOT want to put your young daughters to bed. What great bonding time. Read them books, chat about the day, cuddle, tickle, sing to them. If you have to, tell your W that you want to be active in the girls ending their day. Is that a 180 for you? Then once they are down, read, catch up with TV, listen to music, but do it for YOU. Chat with D13. Give her some serious one on one time. She wont be 13 for much longer. Get close to her again. They say on this site that you have been given the gift of time, here is a way of using it well.

I think when we said one movie won't make a difference, it was in the context of MISSING one movie. Going could set you back a long way. You will be reading signs, trying to interpret meanings from words. LET IT GO! Just say sorry, can't make it, busy. I have given you a few better things you could be doing.