She responded to my text telling her I had plans until 11pm with "Rain check". How can I avoid being right back in this spot in a few days, next week? If I keep telling her no or I am busy, it is going to get to an R talk.
I was wondering this same thing.
Maybe just keep yourself super busy with something so that you REALLY do have other plans. You're not lying. You're just busy.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.