Its a good sign but your H probably has to hit rock rock bottom before he actually acts on his thoughts of trying harder. Write it down in you good signs book and ignore it.
My H also comes from a very stitched up family. Their reserve definitely contributed to my H illness since they didnt express feelings H didnt either, H kept everything bottled up, till he exploded.
Hang in there!
I love love Flight of the Concords and Bret and Jermaine are hysterical (and so is the band manager guy)
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13