Last Resort Technique - Can I correct problems?

[LostIn407]

Agree with jks. How can I set my boundaries and let her know these things will not continue?

When I talked to her a few weeks ago and told her about my plans to file and gave her the date I was going to file if we weren't working on the M, I reiterated that I was upset OM was around my Ds.

Since that talk, OM hasn't been around my Ds. W has been respecting my request.


Hypothetical:
I send her OPTION 3. I cancel my appointment with her/drinks on Wednesday. I think she will pick up that I don't want to do anything with her. She will ask me why I am not doing anything with her. Is this when I have the R talk and set my Boundaries?


I appreciate the quick responses I am getting. It is making it easier to not quickly respond to her text.