at the end he said he'd like to sit together this afternoon and make a schedule for the summer with s's activities and write it all down. he has never ever suggested that - in far the always hated doing that kind of stuff.
of course, it could be he wants things to be crystal clear so he can arrange his trips with ow without it being messy like this past week.
Ahh! You took a positive that you could have just taken as a surface positive and left it at that and instead tried to mindread in negative intent. 2x4!!
What's the most important thing here? How about first focusing on giving S an awesome summer schedule? Then focus on how you're going to have an awesome summer? And worrying about H and OW is NOT on that list!
