a man stood on a riverbank and watched a man catch fish measure the fish against a broken ruler and throw back any that were bigger than the ruler. He wondered what must be wrong with the larger fish...maybe as they got bigger they didn't taste as good. Eager to make the right decision he asked the man why he threw away the larger ones. The man said "you see that ruler? That's the size of my frying pan"
so the website went on to say that he man was denying himself anything bigger because he had a rigid amount he was willing to accept. So should you open up and allow more? a bigger life, a bigger love etc.
I guess it just made me realize that in my hurt and pain of the R and how much I missed H I might be limiting myself to what's out there and the possibility of other outcomes. I need to get a bigger frying pan one..it's a lot like a begginers mind but it just made it real for me. (if you google let love in ruler fish I'm sure you can find it but I know they don't like outside links)
