Falling in Love Again.....with ME!

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I read Accuray's post on someone's thread that said don't ask what did I do wrong ask what can I do better. the first makes you feel bad the second empowers you.

So I'm concentrating on that...what can I do better? How can I be the woman of my dreams? I need a whole new wardrobe! Nothing fits in a good way and I'm looking at shaking up my style!

Love that post from Accuracy... so true. Have fun clothes shopping! Enjoy your new self!

I put a post on fb that I was taking a break a few months ago, deactivated and I have been mostly happy that I did. I don't have to worry about seeing something I don't want to see and I don't have to second-guess my motives for posting something.

I also think fb was part of W's general unhappiness before the bomb. It makes it seem like everyone is constantly having the best time ever.. Most people (myself included) don't paint the most realistic picture of their lives on there, that is not the purpose.. and I think it may have helped fool my W into thinking the grass is greener...

I say this bc your H's postings do not reflect everything he is thinking or experiencing right now.. It is easy to think they do, but who knows.. the grass may not be as green as it appears... or even if it is right now, time catches up to the fantasy of every new R.

I know that taking a break from fb helped me sleep better. When I was on there, I could not help wondering if W would find out about my posts... and what she might think. And when I would see mutual friends post about an event, I would wonder if she were there and on and on.

Melatonin is good. Hope you find something that helps.