This is the part that confuses me the most. I am not initiating any plans, she is the one asking me. I read that she has to come to me, is she doing that now?
This is exactly where I F up. I am not going to respond to the text for a bit, so advice needed.
Currently, this is what I would do: I have plans until 11:00pm. I would tell her I have plans until 11 and suggest an alternate after I am done.
I guess I can't tell the difference between being the Plan B, being the safety net, being the "gay friend" to actual progress. How the heck will I know when it is progress? We haven't done anything together without the Ds besides the one drink last week in almost a month.
M-40 W-33 D3, D4, SD13 T 9 YEARS M 5 YEARS ILYBINILWY APRIL 2012
