IF you want a 180.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself.

Stop apologizing for everything to everyone.

You have basically become your wife's "gay-friend"

You did some checking and verification on her activities to see where she is with the OM. You feel guilty.

Your wife is with another man and your worried about cancelling rollerblading.

Stop being Mr. Melty nice guy to everyone.

That is a 180.





Your sole focus is her. Nothing else. It is destroying you.

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