Last Resort Technique - Can I correct problems?

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I could not tell her I was going rollerblading, but the D13 would tell her. Then I look like an a-hole. That would be a 180 for me.

D13 can watch D3 and D4, but she is a teenager and she is impossible to predict. She can be quite mean to D4 as I believe there are jealousy issues since D13 was the only child for 9 years. D13 is great with D3. I don't feel comfortable sometimes leaving D13 as the authority, other times I have no issues.

I can't un-invite W on Father's Day. It isn't any real change if she comes financially. Buy one adult, get one child free. Her ticket is basically free.

I look at the list of things my W mentioned as reasons for the OM and the separation:
- We never did anything.
- I never wanted to go out.
- I let myself go.

My GAL of working out is going great. I am just a few weeks away from full abs. I am almost lighter and more muscular than when we first started dating.

I go out all the time now. I have the job and schedule that allows it so I take advantage of it.

My wife loves amusement parks and always wanted us to go to more parks.


After Father's Day, I won't plan any activities with her. Lately, 99% of the activities were family related. I will try to kill that last 1%. I guess I thought doses of family life would kick-start something in her.