Drop your expectations back downt to zero. I think that all of the communication in the last week, it kind of set you up, even though you might not have been fully aware of it.
Her attention right now is setting up her apt. and working. That's good...it gives you a break from the insanity.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.