Hi Snow - glad to hear about the progress with your W.
I would not recommend a gift at this point unless her love language is gifts, in which case perhaps something very, very small. You know her best - don't scare the squirrel!
I believe MDW wrote about finding a good MC in the back of one of DB/DR (I don't have it with me right now so I don't remember which). Maybe try looking on the website for the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT) to see if there is any local. At a minimum, make sure to ask if they are pro-marriage and be clear that you are working to save your M before you take your W there.
