Just another thought on the FB thing - I don't think you need to delete him, but definitely stop checking on him. What if you took a break from FB and deactivated for a bit? I don't think that's being a victim. I've done this before and it gave me a lot of needed mental space b/c I wasn't worried about checking up on everyone constantly. Those that needed to get a hold of me know how to do that. You could send a message to others letting them know you'll be available by email/whatever.
Originally Posted By: Brit45
I woke up this morning and attempted the handyman project he was going to do. I'm not strong enough and there are screws sticking out but at least it's holding up. LOL!!! I'll get S to help me later. He's pretty strong.
The funny thing is it used to upset me when I'd think about how he was out going to places that he never went to with me while I wasn't GAL'ing. Truth is I'd had such a great weekend and last night I was cozy on my sofa with my dog completely happy to be doing nothing rather than worrying that I was missing out on life.
