do not let FEAR guide you or control you. She's not the first woman to allege this and the judge knows that.
But be vigilant. Do not cave in to her b/c of your fears. That is short sighted and you'll always regret not standing up for time with your son if you let your fears or inability to confront conflict, win out over standing up for yourself and your son.
There is a reason you and your son are happier when you have enough time.
How did that get shortened? When your w brings up legal matters, which are only needed b/c of how SHE TREATED YOU in this mediation deal, in which
anytime she didn't get what ALL of what she wanted, she'd get angry.' That's why you hired a lawyer.
If you had not, your wife would gladly have written up the whole "agreement" and had you sign it and act as if that was fair.
She's blind to what is fair to you. I hope you see that.
Any hope of a reconcilation must be seen as something that only can happen if the obstacle of respect is overcome.
MEANING, she won't want to be married to you unless she believes she can respect you
and that won't happen w/ you playing all nice/agreeable doormat. There are ways of being calm, firm, strong and assertive and willing to make concessions when advisable.
It's not black and white, not about being "all jack ass versus doormat".
Make sense?
Read Bond's post again b/c I think it's got a lot of value in it, as does Val's.
We're all rooting for you. i wonder if anuy of your posts here are admissible. See what your L says but
be mindful, if any of it gets in, all of it could.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
