W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore-P3

[Snowman]

My W texted me to say she is putting the D on hold with her L which is more good signs. We are going to grab diner and go to a park with our S to play while we talk about what approach we want to take as far as counseling or other programs. My W also said we have a lot to work through. I validated that comment and said we have some hard work ahead but I'm willing to put forth the effort and I hope you are too.

Question: My W's birthday is in 2 days and I'm not sure what to do at this point. My birthday was a few weeks ago and received nothing from her but that was before the revelation of wanting to work on it. I'm not keeping score I just not sure if I should get something for her or not. I was thinking something simple like a card but it's hard to tell???

How do I search for a good marriage counselor?