Apt is always spic and span when I leave it. Used to have fresh flowers for her but after she dropped the bomb #2 or 3 on 4/18 I started to go dark so stopped doing all those little nice things. That was on advice of DB coach.
And you are correct, accommodating her for 6 months has not really pulled me any closer. Going dark seemed to stop her pulling away quite so much, but this is another level entirely.
M 53, W 48 T 25, M 18 S 15, D 11 "I'me done!" 6/13/2010 Exit started 8/21/2011 ILYBNILWY W consults with L 9/2011, no papers filed Separated 1/16/2012
