Okay so she and you both share the apt. and home if I'm reading correctly. Do you ever run into one another in the apt. or home? How do you handle things like groceries and cleaning duties in those instances?
IMHO you should tell her that you are no longer comfortable with the situation the way things are and that you are moving back to YOUR home. And that if she is the one who feels uncomfortable for whatever reason she has, then she is more than welcome to stay in the apt. After all, if she feels uncomfortable, then she should be the one to remove herself.
She'll say that you're "controlling", etc. But tell her firmly that you are not. That she has been the one controlling you with this arrangement that you did not want and that you've just made the decision that you would like to stay in the home which you own. Tell her she has a right to disagree and that she is free to do what she wishes.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
