you are the "main" character! and what a character you are. your introspection is amazing. the feedback you give me rocks. i feel blessed having "met" you.
the crap with FB is just that. crap. i see people checking into places all the time and they are my friends. it annoys me. just cuz he went to a museum or whatever doesnt mean he is enjoying himself. specially if it was pulling teeth to get him to do it. go with the flow guys do whatever, even if they dont like it, until they are comforatable saying no or giving excuses. at least i was.
idk if he is happy. all i know is i wasnt. i was willing to put up with it because i didnt want to rock the boat. i wouldnt be so stressed if i was you. unless i really liked museums, i would get pretty sick of that quick. then when he does, she might start trying to "force" him to do stuff. he didnt like that about you. probly wont like it about her. maybe he will see the common denominator is himself. maybe not.
either way. you said it yourself, you are a catch. keep being positive about YOU. all the things you have done are amazing. keep it up. im reading a book about unconditional love. when you love yourself it is easier to love others with no expectations. people notice that and are drawn to it. he might be as well. if not, oh well. you will be happy and at peace.
Originally Posted By: Brit45
My sister gave me the 2x4 tonight. She said there were reasons you walked away and those reasons are now lessons. She said think of your past relationships you never would have dreamed then that you'd meet H and in 5 years you'll say I can't believe how I feel compared to this time in my life. And she's right.
think about this. happiness starts with you. love starts with you.
