Well we are sharing weeks, one in apt and one with kids in the house, so kids get us both. There is no reason for me to be out of the house at all (abuse etc. does not exist) but me returning would reset the clock on our separation which she does not want. Also I think it would lead to a very conflicted situation, one I don't want my kids to witness. Maybe it is time to stop sacrificing!
M 53, W 48 T 25, M 18 S 15, D 11 "I'me done!" 6/13/2010 Exit started 8/21/2011 ILYBNILWY W consults with L 9/2011, no papers filed Separated 1/16/2012