Time for a new thread with a more positive title. I hope I linked my old thread properly.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2250980&page=1

Pretty much every day lately I have had a positive post bomb thought. I guess that's what I'd call it. Like when I go to the mall and don't feel the need to hide my purchases coming in the house. Or when my married friend tells me she can't wait for me to start dating so she can live vicariously through me and I think- oh yeah, I get to have those falling in love feelings again. Or when I do something new that I was too stuck in a rut to try before. I never could have made it to this positive place without GAL and detaching.
I'm not and will never be someone's back up plan. Thanks everyone for the support!


Me-32
H-31
M-1yr, 9mos/T-6.5yrs
No kids, 3 pets
H estranged father passes away- 8/11
Bomb- 1/15/12
Began LRT- 4/1/12