When I broke up with my college bf (back in the instant messenger days) we stayed in touch and I would obsess over the meanings behind his away messages. We were on and off for 3 years after breaking up. I'm surprised my friends still talk to me after all the drama!! Then I met H and it was like "oh that's why we didn't work out, God had this up (her) sleeve". I keep thinking that with my current situation. It's paving the way for something better, a relationship with hopefully more romance, more compliments, less anger, less resentment (and hey, more money wouldn't be bad either!)


Years ago I quoted that Garth Brooks song to my mom "Some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers". I wanted to rip her head off when she said it to me the day I found out about OW.... But, moms are always right wink


Me-32
H-31
M-1yr, 9mos/T-6.5yrs
No kids, 3 pets
H estranged father passes away- 8/11
Bomb- 1/15/12
Began LRT- 4/1/12