Not Being A Victim

[BklynMom]

Thanks snodderly and wh for your thoughts but honestly they are a little too vague for me. I really dont know how to know who I need to tell and who I dont need to tell. I am confused.

But what do I say to people? Especially at the school where people think I am still couple with my H, if I dont tell them before hand that we are not together and they treat us like we are together at the event he will get angry at me.

I feel so ashamed that daughter doesnt have a home with a mother and a father, so ashamed.