am i better off without him?

[sweetbabyred]

That's so confusing when they do that. Yesterday, I joked with H about possibly needing to become a "dancer" to pay my bills now that I'm on my own. His response was that we'd have no chance of reconciliation if that happened.

My thought is, if there's a chance of reconciliation now, no matter how slight, why are you planning to file for divorce? Shouldn't we try to work things out first and then if there's no hope, go ahead and file?

I don't think I'll ever understand his logic. None of our friends or family can either, so I guess I'm not the crazy one. That's not much comfort though...