He's been a bit tough today, and he wants to talk to me at the baseball game tonight. I will not, it is not the time or the place. I am there for my son and will watch the game.
Previously I was leaving every other weekend to let him stay here with the boys because his temp living situation is not good for overnights. He has made no effort to find a new living situation, has spent his weekends boating, partying, heading to the mountains with friends. So he has had plenty of time.
I spoke with my L and she suggested I should not allow it any longer. It is a clear boundary violation, confusing for the kids and probably for him (which is why he is telling people he is moving home eventually).
I told him this morning that things will be changing. He lost it. I detached. Thankfully I had my appt with IC today and I feel prepared to have this discussion at the appropriate time.
I dropped off additional paperwork for the financial hearing but we are still waiting on the court right now, it is out of the L's hands until we hear from them.
