Oh how my heart goes out to you.......I know that sadness of when you realize it is the end of a long marriage and what we thought was a good marriage...feels like your heart is being ripped out by someone YOU KNOW loved you as much as you loved them and still love. How sad they may never see what they have done...unlike us we have changed because since we were thrown into this mightmare we can look back and reflect on some things that we could of changed...no marriage is perfect we are not perfect but it does not justify the affairs that they decided to have. If we could only go back in time and change US both of us we might now be here now..... God knows I failed my husband in many ways but he did as well....all we can do now is pray for forgiveness....for comfort...and for peace without God in my life I dont know how I would of made it this far I pray in the next chapter of your life Wendy you to look to him as well.....he is an awesome God....Irma
