There's a fair chance he's lied to the OW too. Although usually it's not advisable to contact the OP, if you think there's a chance she doesn't know he has a wife and kids, you might want to let her know.
Yes, I know he has lied to her. He told her we both wanted this divorce and we were being amicable about it. He also told her that we have been separated for quite some time. I think she has absolutely no clue. Although when I busted him out on his A my PI friend told me OW said "I think your wife has a PI out on me". Although those were H's words and he might paraphrase. He has a tendency to do that.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
