Hang in there. I feel "dismissed" by H as well. But after seeing photos of OW it just confirms that she is a band-aid. She's got nothing on me. Absolutely nothing. She doesn't have the "good" H. She's got the creep and she can have him. He will leave her high and dry once he is done with her.
It takes a while to get to this point. I know exactly how you feel. Just do what makes you happy. Rediscover the awesome person you are. Find that spark. H will notice. He might not say so, but he will notice.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
