Do you ever feel like by being dark that you are not doing enough?
Yes, all the time. But the funny thing is, it is what helps the most in the most ridiculous way. For someone to share 14 years of their life with you and to honestly walk away from it all without feeling a thing is very, very unlikely. OW is a bandaid to help ease the pain. I can see how if our spouses can see us moving on, the pain will be heightened and they will start to really see the affects of their actions.
When you're around H and you're feeling good about yourself, it will show. He'll notice. Treat him like a friend, not a H. You can do it.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
