Originally Posted By: heartbrokeinsd
Originally Posted By: LostIn407

WTF? How can a woman go from ice cold for 36 hours to my old best friend in a blink of an eye?


wow. i am so glad i am not the only one confused by this crap. thinking about it makes my head hurt.


This is because you let them control the situation. You read too much into every little thing they do.

You could spend hours trying to figure out the touch of a hand on the shoulder. When that was all it was.

You need to work hard to let these moments not affect you. Your emotions are running full tilt. So you will feed off anything that you think how it should be going. But it is you just tricking yourself to match your feelings.

There is no reality here. There is no path to the light here. It is what it is. Crumbs or a cheese-less tunnel.

You want to remove the confusion. Be indifferent to both moods. Teach her to step to your mood. Which should only be polite, respectful and too the point.

Anything else is a waste of time for you.


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