[LITB]

So, LITB... what's your plan?

Yes, therapy or RV or whatever...

I mean what is YOUR plan? For you, going through this and into the future?

KD,

Thank you for the prayers. I appreciate them and I appreciate your insightful thoughts.

I'll answer your questions the best that I can.

I can already see how difficult this is going to be. A lot of painful emotions are going to be brought back to the surface. It is already happening. The good thing is that I recognize them. I need to focus on the positives and kill the negatives. It is going to take a lot of time and work. I will be leaning on the expertise of others to help give me guidance. I lean on the Pastor of my church quite a bit, MWD and of course members of these forums for starters.

My W has already said multiple times that she needs to get IC. Ironically she had just finished meeting with a therapist in regards to her childhood 16 years ago. Right before we met. She told me that she realizes that she fell into some old patterns of running from her problems.

As a couple, we have already discussed RV and we will certainly be attending.

It will be a never ending process. We will have to adjust accordingly as we go.