Very interesting turn of events that has me reeling with mixed emotions... I thought long and hard about signing the waiver so she could refinance house. This morning, I sent her a msg that I understood where she is at and what she wants, but I am not at that point yet, so I couldn't be signing any papers that would move the future along that we couldn't agree on. I told her that I was really looking forward to seeing SD and that I didn't want to take away from that by thinking or talking about our sitch. Also said that if she wanted, we could make plans to sit down and talk, w/o distractions, about what she wanted for the future so i could really hear and understand what she wanted.
After a very short wait, I got this back... "don't come over. ... U know i need to refinance so I can afford everything. Has nothing to do w/ finalyzing anything, but whatever."
I responded by saying that I would really like to see SD, i really miss her, but I understand. Told her I am sorry for her situation, but this was her choice. Told her she doesn't have the right to be mad at me, I have respected her decision, but she needs to understand where I am at too. All I was asking for was to sit down and talk about it.
Asked if I could at least drop off little gift I got for SD and I wouldn't stay. Said that whatever issues she and I have shouldn't impact the bond that SD and I have together.
Few minutes later, I missed a call from her and haven't heard anything back yet.
I know she is fuming mad and she is holding SD as leverage. I knew that she couldn't afford everything by herself, but I didn't think it would come out this quick.
