My question about the lawyer was for you to get all the legal facts. If legal SA or D should arise, then letting the kids go with her MAY tilt things one way or another with custody, depending on where you live.

There are people I know here where I live who have regretted their pre-D choices because of how things shook out in court...there is the law, there are lawyers, and there are judges...and then there is what is "right".

Though I have absolutely NO intentions of helping W if she chooses the D road, I still, early on, once I figured out what was happening, consulted with a L, just so I was fully aware of my rights, choices and ramification of those...

Protect yourself, and your kids...a consultation doesn't mean you are filing...

T^2


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