When I drive to work in the morning, I can take one of two routes. One of them passes me by OM's house (or his mama's since he is 31 and still lives with his mama.....).

Today I decided to take the route that passes by the OM. His car was there, meaning he didn't stay over at W's apartment last night. When talking with the W lately, she always seems to mention she is going out with her girlfriends. (Mindreading?)

When we talked about movies out that we wanted to see, she told me she won't go to movies with OM because he is the type that doesn't shut up during movies. (I didn't ask, why did she volunteer this info?)

Still planning on being extra dark/dim this week, but I probably need someone to slap me around a bit so I don't initiate any contact with the W. So if anyone out there has some aggression they need to get out, please hit me with it so I don't screw up this week.

Thanks again for all the replies and advice. This situation is tough for me and I appreciate what everyone on this board has to say.

M-40
W-33
D3, D4, SD13
T 9 YEARS
M 5 YEARS
ILYBINILWY APRIL 2012