Good to hear from you again KD. I dont have much time to reply, got to go to work. Yesterday W and I moved D into a new apartment. It went well. W was civil. But no talk was made of divorce. Tuesday, if you read my post, she came and told me whe was going through with the divorce. The papers have been ready for some time. I have heard nothing. No sign of papers, no contact from lawyer, nothing. I dont get it. Is W jacking me around yet again. What? Do one of you out there know the drill? How will papers come? W was still wearing ring. One thing I noticed was her new hairdo. Second shade of hair on bottom. Is this normal for a 50 year old. Looks like MLC to me.