It's what some WAW's say to the LBH trying to give them a "reason" for leaving, or they see it as an easier let down.
She chose to leave for another reason, not b/c she can't give you what you deserve....unless she means a W who can respond sexually. She thought she would be attracted if you made the changes she wanted, but found out it didn't happen.
The best thing you can do is continue your focus on you and the boys, and not on her. Act as if you have your eyes open now, and you know what you want in life and are working toward it. I know you want her, but she is last person who needs to know, for now. She needs to see you happy and care free. She needs to see you moving forward as if you plan to have a life without her.
If you do this well, she will start to make comments/questions about you looking like you're doing okay for yourself since she left. So, be prepared with a response. Of course, you don't have to say anything in words.....you can always just look at her (if it's in person) and not say a word....and walk away. That says volumes to her.
I'm not telling to you be mean. I'm just preparing you. If you keep working on yourself, she's going to be drawn to the man she once fell in love with.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
