Took the words right out of my mouth. Its funny (not really) how I'm not the right one anymore but anyone who gives him a glance is a better fit? Oh, and he says how us getting together at a young age was not the right way to start a relationship, but an OW is a great way. They make no sense.
Originally Posted By: wishing, hoping
Your H and mine sound like they are cut from the same cloth. I keep thinking perhaps mine isn't MLC but the more I notice the crazy antics from H and the more I read threads from the MLC forum the more similarities I see. My H is all about "feelings" and how he has "feelings" for me but not "romantic" feelings. He still thinks I am the most beautiful woman ever, the best mom ever, the best friend ever and the best homemaker ever but it's all about "feelings". Fourteen years of being best friend ever and boom he is sneaking around with another woman and it's over. My H, as well, says he is not crazy and is perfectly sane. Although everyone who sees him and talks to him (except for OW) wonders why he is acting like a crazy man.
We cannot let them have their cake and eat it too. They need to have reality smack them in the face. It is hard but we need to sit back and let nature take its course.
This is my H to a tee too. (Supposidly the orginal OW is out, but from what I've heard, in her own mlc...things he would say I'm sure were a parrot of what she had said about her m). Now he's moved on to gf's way younger with younger friends and a "look" to go with it. Again, I love this thread.
Me-36 H-37 D11 S8 S6 M9 T19 ILYNILWY 11/10 discover EA 02/11 discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11 H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11 Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12