When it's a one-way street...part 6

[adinva]

I don't know. How would you feel if he read what you've written so far and realized it was about him? If he came on here too andparticipated, maybe people could provide some help to him.

If my H asked I would not provide the name of this forum, and I hope that he would not find it. It's a valuable resource for me and I need to be able to talk all the way through my feelings, some of which are ugly and some of which aren't really how I feel just a little while later. I feel H would miss the evolutionary aspect of what I write and be insulted by things I've written.

I would say my forum is a private place I journal with like-minded people and I'd prefer he seek out his own resources. Rinse, repeat.

You're right that it is not your responsibility to do this work for him, to find a message board to participate in. He may just be wondering who's capturing so much of your attention.