You're exactly right about that. I had already had this planned in my mind about telling her I wouldn't sign anything until L saw. As far as SD, between you, me, and the forum, as much as I would do anything to have a future with SD, I would never put her through what would need to be done to make sure I still see her. It is not fair to her to have to go thru what her mom and I are doing. I will basically do whatever is best for SD, not matter what.!!!