Bond, as of this morning, there are now two sets of papers I am talking about. of course the D papers, but now there are papers that waiver my right to any part of the house so she can refinance. She is basically trying to knock down what she is paying because now she has a pretty hefty vehicle payment that she didnt have when I met her. Now she has to pay mortgage, utilities, personal bills, and a vehicle payment that she wasn't used to paying the entire time she owned the house. I originally told her I would pay for the Tahoe since my truck payment was almost finished. I don't think she realized what impact it would have.