Therein lies the problem... I don't sign the waiver because I don't feel that our M is to the point of finalizing everything and she gets even more defensive about the thought of working on M. I sign, and she is taking more steps to no longer need me around.

I guess how I'm feeling is she is now realizing, at least financially, what we were able to have together, but is doing everything in her power to not let that influence her actions about ending our M.