New to DB

[needgrace]

I alwYs thought I needed a man to 'save' me to protect me to support me. Therefore I became needy.

That thought process meant I was always trying to PLEASE yet because I was holding so much in I was being passive aggressive.

What wonderful insight. I felt the same. I think it is easy to do so. There is an existential aloneness to our lives that can be scary. I think that finding a way to cope with that reality is where real freedom comes. That is where I hope to grow.

Some people never realize these things.. They avoid, deny, hide, pretend... I hope that you can be proud of yourself for how you are growing.