It is nice to be able to talk and get to know a person, discover you have much in common and share the same morals/beliefs.
With regard to the D, yes, a person has to do it at the time that is best for them.
I still have issues I have to deal with but this will be a big chip off the shoulder once completed. It's just a straight divorce, no contest type thing. We actually get along pretty good but there are no feelings there between the two of us.
I asked him what illness ow has but he says it is none of my business. She can no longer work. Whatever.......
As for the kids....the girls could care less about their dad. My son still craves that father-son connection but they get along well.
He never talks about ow to the kids and to this day, they still have never met her.
I told him I hope she is elated that I am finally giving them both what they want..
My "friend" did warn me...he said usually when you go thru with a D, they always seem to want you back. No indication of that here...probably because he knows I HAVE moved on.
My "friend" lives out of state but we are in constant contact and it is really nice.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
