I feel bad! When S19 were talking about school ex wasn't around. It was just my son and I. I told him that if he wanted to go to KU he would need to show me that he really wanted to go there by working to get scholarships independent of the University because they only give out really small ones. He didn't do any of the work to get one. So he focused more on the local university.
He had the grades to get scholarships with them. On top of that he got an extra scholarship just for going to a local high school. We agreed since he hadn't been really big on being away from home before he might want to go to the local university and live at home for a couple of years. After that, if he wanted to transfer, he could. I paid my own way through school. It took me an extra year to get done and I kept up my scholarships. He is trying to follow in my footsteps.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory