Originally Posted By: Valeska19

And even though it hurts.. I think I'd rather do option 1. I will guard myself as much as I can from her, but I need to do what makes me happy....

... I need to do with what I can live with.

Honestly I don't know if either will bring me closer to my wife.

At this stage it doesn't matter.. the only thing that matters is myself and being the woman that I want to be.



Val, how true...sometimes being the person we want to be is more painful. ((( )))

Me(f): 51 W: 41
DP:8 M:3 T:10
"W not happy" 7/11
D final: 8/13