Not much to report except that I hung in there and we tried to reconcile a few times, but right about the 6 week point, ow would call and he would be right back over there.
I had to feel comfortable with a divorce ,not when people said I should file. It had to be me. I put my family first because there were issues I had to put above marriage, divorce and felt that the divorce would have been more than any of us could handle.
Another factor into my being happy is I joined a hometown group and as it turns out, a guy whose family is well known and has a good reputation...well he and i hung around with the same group of friends growing up but never knew each other..we started messaging and are surprised that we never met!
We have so much in common, message every day and are up front and honest and communicate. It has been so nice and slow and the honesty has been wonderful.
My gut feelings say this is developing at a very nice pace. And when you are told that your daily messages make someone's day and vice versa...it sure makes you feel good about yourself after going thru so much.
That is pretty much my story these days.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
